Named after “Catfish”, an MTV in-depth report special about
people using Facebook or other social media to pose as someone else, is
catfishing truly a victimless crime it once believed it to be?
By: Ringo Bones
One of the most bizarre incidents I experienced first hand
online was when I made my Facebook account a few years ago. Within 20 minutes
or so of setting-up my Facebook account a friend request suddenly popped up
because back then I genuinely believe that the “goal” of Facebook is to amass
5,000 friends in as sort amount of time so I was a bit lazy in doing the
requisite background check of friend requests. It was someone whose name I now
forgot using the metal band Night Ranger’s guitarist as his profile photo who –
this was 20 mines into setting up my Facebook account – keep insistently asking
me why I only have one photo. I responded I’m only into Facebook for a quarter
of an hour or so my “new Facebook friend” started accusing me as a “fake
profile”. I since unfriended and blocked the bastard, and given the recent news
story of the Notre Dame football team star linebacker by the name of Manti
Te’o’s “dead girlfriend hoax”, I know wonder – I am almost a victim of this so
called “catfish” or “catfishing” social media / Facebook malarkey a few years
ago?
Currently my Facebook friend roster sits at around the 500
mark, given the rather rigorous and draconian screening of prospective Facebook
friend requests. Of the 500 or so, only about 30 of them I ever met face to
face during the last few years or so – making them qualify for the “realness”
category. And only two of them that I actually met when I was only a toddler
back in 1975 or so. Does this mean that social media like Facebook is now so
full of this “catfish” malarkey that the only criterion we have for giving the
green light on Facebook friend requests is weather or not we have actually met
them face to face?
Well, some of my “real” Facebook friends that I have
actually met face to face – a couple of them – used to act like that “Notorious
Nigerian Prince” extorting me charity money to support their causes even
resorting to using “guilt tactics” if I ignore them. And I am very, very
tempted to unfriend and block them this very moment. Surprisingly, there are
those that I suspect to be “posers” seem to act like social media saints by
only posting necessary messages on my Facebook wall. One at best can only be
pragmatic when dealing the problem of fake social media profiles and catfishing
on Facebook on a case-to-case basis so exercise with “caveat emptor” when
selecting your prospective Facebook and other social media friends.